Sunday, March 30, 2014

turning silver into platinum: applying lessons learned at a presentation on chronic hoarding to my closet

I had the opportunity to attend a presentation on chronic hoarding. The presenter was Dr. Reinardy, who has a plethora of experience, including working on the show Hoarders. During the presentation I kept thinking "omg, I can't wait to get home and work on my closet". 

Dr. Reinardy mentioned that there are 4 levels of value that we attach to our possesions. 

-Platinum/gold- These are the items you reach for everyday, the favorite items that always look great. 
-Silver- The clothes that are ok, but not great. Maybe they aren't the right color, or don't have the best fit. 
-Aluminum- These are the items that could be useful if they were repaired. Maybe pants that need hemming, a blouse that needs a button sewn on. 
-Rusty tin can- This would be the stuff that should be thrown immediately- socks and undies riddled with holes, that sort of thing. 

I went through a few of the items in my closet that were ok, but not fabulous and wanted to see if a few simple tweaks could elevate them from silver to platinum. 

Excuse the horrible mirror selfie- any day now Audrey will be ready to be my photographer, but until then selfies it is. Anyways, they were not the most flattering of jeans, in fact they seemed downright dumpy. As a bit of an aside, I prefer to exclusively wear skinny jeans with flats. So could these jeans be fixed? All it took was a bit of a cuff. A bit of ankle makes them much more flattering. I've heard straight leg jeans are universally flattering, but I have to disagree. I'm sure these would look better with a heel, but the length they are hemmed to makes a heel impossible (remember when I've mentioned I only wear flats or 3-4 inch heels? I stand by that. And wearing a high heel would expose way too much of the shoe. If you wear a skinny jean, your entire shoe can be visible, but as the silhouette widens, your shoe should disappear. You won't be carted away to fashion jail if you wear bootleg jeans with your entire shoe showing, but next time you get jeans try having them hemmed to just touching the floor. It will look a million times better).


Clearly I could do an entire post on hemlines. Which brings me to the next picture. Justin actually spotted this dress when we were shopping together. I was hesitant to try it on, as it was a larger size than I typically wear, but the belt worked wonders. The only problem was that it was knee length, which paired with the blousy cut of the dress added pounds. I took a few closet selfies with the dress at regular length and "hemmed" with a few bobby pins and texted them to Amanda and she confirmed my suspicion that it looked better with several inches chopped off. 

I got this dress and a few other items ready for my tailor mom and she worked her magic (I had the idea of altering a few items before the presentation, but while she spoke I kept thinking "hey, I've turned silver to platinum!" (if you were truly a chronic hoarder, you would probably be encouraged to get rid of the items that needed work, but thankfully I'm just a clothing enthusiast, not hoarder). 

 I should have saved the before picture so you could see the contrast, but you'll just have to trust me that it looks much better short.



My mom is working on a few other items for me. I'm especially excited for my pink tweed blazer to be ready. I absolutely loved the blazer when I bought it a few years ago, but it has long (as in hitting my palms) sleeves, and was a bit cropped. That just wasn't the best combination. I instructed my mom to chop several inches off the sleeves and I anticipate it will really modernize the blazer.

a girl after my own heart

Last week we went to the mall to get the girls new shoes. We let the girls get out of their stroller to try them in, and Claire was very excited. She took off giggling and running- she would have ran right out of the store of I had let her.

They haven't worn their shoes outside yet, so they are able to wear them in the house. Claire especially enjoys stomping around on the kitchen floor with them.


Tuesday, March 25, 2014

tuesday shoesday: leopard pumps

This weeks feature is an awesome pair of pumps I don't wear nearly enough. I purchased them to wear to a wedding a few years ago- they are gorgeous, but at 5 inches are just a bit high for everyday wear. I don't know what it is- I can wear 4 inch heels all day long, but that extra inch makes it a bit uncomfortable.


Its not the greatest picture of them, but they are full of leopard-y goodness. I purchased the black dress on super clearance from gap months before the event. True to form, my shoes were the most expensive part of my outfit- I prefer to splurge on shoes and spend a bit less on other pieces. Justin helped me score a deal on them though- I spotted them while browsing online. I absolutely loved them, but they were $129- which is a bit more than I prefer to spend. We were shopping at Mall of America, and I checked my usual haunts- the steve madden store, Nordstrom, etc. I was tempted to throw in the discount shopping towel and splurge (they were an anniversary gift after all), but Justin had the idea of checking out DSW. I doubted that I would be able to find them at DSW, as they were current season but lo and behold they were there and offered at a steep discount.

Monday, March 24, 2014

recent purchases

There has been some great sales at a few of my favorite stores lately so I have taken advantage of snagging a few essentials:

First up were these cute sperrys:

I had a coupon so I only had to pay for shipping. Gotta love shoes for under $10!

I ordered this fun bubble necklace... It arrived today:


I have another bubble necklace, but this one is more of a statement piece. I have a tendency to wear neutral tops so I like to jazz them up with accessories.

Speaking of which, I finally got this scarf I've had my eye on since seeing it featured on morepiecesofme.com:



I picked up this lovely striped dress. I've had my eye on a striped skirt, however the dress is easier to style:


I will have to wait a week or so to get my hands on this beauty. I tried on my normal size in the store but it was a bit snug and quite short, so I ordered the next size up online. I'm hoping that the larger size adds an inch or so in length.

I also ordered these polka dot skinny jeans:



I'll be able to style these with my express portofino shirts for sure, but I'll have to take to Pinterest for a few more ideas. I'm thinking a slouchy jewel toned sweater would pair nicely. They are a bit distressed so I'm not sure if I'll be able to pull them off for work... Maybe if I pair them with a blazer and statement necklace.

Sunday, March 23, 2014

fitness find

So I have become obsessed with YouTube fitness videos. As much as I love Jillian Michaels, I was ready to switch things up. My gym membership ends soon, so I've been looking into ways of getting a gym level workout at home.

I've been doing hiit and tabata style workouts, along with barre which were my favorite classes to go to at the gym. 

I'm in the midst of a 30 day fitness challenge right now, where I workout 45-60 minutes per day with one rest day per week. There are definitely days when I don't feel like squeezing in a workout, but I throw on my workout clothes and tell myself I can quit after 10 minutes. Once I get going I always finish my workout.


Tuesday, March 18, 2014

tuesday shoesday

So I got the idea of highlighting my shoe collection from the more pieces of me blog- she had such awesome style, it is certainly aspirational. I noticed that I own a few of the pieces she has highlighted on her blog... that boosted my style IQ by at least 20 points. Anyways, on to the shoes:



These beauties are the frye lucinda slouch. As my calves are on the curvier side, they are more mid calf than knee boots on me.

I had been wanting a pair of fryes for about the past five years after a friend scored a pair at off fifth. True story- I've been shopping at off fifth about once a year for the better part of the past decade, but I have only pulled the trigger on one item (juicy couture pajamas). What can I say, I have better luck at Nordstrom rack. 

Anyways, I came across my fryes by chance. I was browsing 6pm on Black Friday and saw these at a major discount. I'm still on the hunt for cognac Melissa buttons... The most I've ever seen them discounted is 20%, which still puts them outside of the range I typically spend on shoes (believe it or not. I've never spent more than $100 on shoes... Which means my husband probably has tennis shoes pricier than my covetable fryes).

Stay tuned for next Tuesday when I will highlight another pair from my collection.